I don’t see how by any stretch of imagination, choosing to not have kids could be considered selfish. If anything I believe it to be the other way round; bringing a new life into the world with not even half a plan for the cost, putting pressure on natural resources, all because of the expectation.
I am a hypocrite however, due to be being a parent but it is what I always wanted. And as for having half a plan, there’s always been one albeit subconscious and probably from childhood. But this hypocrisy, I feel, only does more to qualify me to say that no-one should feel the peer-pressure that listens for the pitter-patter of tiny feet. Leave the dirty work to crazy mugs like myself. The human race won’t go extinct and if so, under what scenario would it ever matter? The parents want grandkids? £√¢€ them, they should have made you more siblings.


